{"id":1680,"date":"2001-03-16T09:17:47","date_gmt":"2001-03-16T08:17:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/crashdown.com\/news\/?p=1680"},"modified":"2015-05-11T11:37:33","modified_gmt":"2015-05-11T09:37:33","slug":"tv-guide-online-job-star-deciphers-girl-code","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/crashdown.com\/news\/2001\/03\/tv-guide-online-job-star-deciphers-girl-code\/","title":{"rendered":"TV Guide Online: Job Star Deciphers Girl Code"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Thanks to Robyn for this:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>This was in TV Guide Insider Online today &#8211; March15<\/p>\n<p>Job Star Deciphers Girl Code<\/p>\n<p>by Allie Cahill<\/p>\n<p>Former Loveline co-host Diane Farr knows what women want. And in her first novel, The Girl Code (Little Brown, $14.95), the actress demystifies dating and doles out advice to lovelorn ladies. But Farr, who co-stars on Roswell and Denis Leary&#8217;s new ABC police dramedy The Job, is quick to point out that her book is nothing like The Rules.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I think it&#8217;s really demeaning to insinuate that a woman has to trick a man into spending his life with her,&#8221; Farr tells TV Guide Online. &#8220;We certainly don&#8217;t have to trick anybody into our company.&#8221; Instead, she says The Girl Code is meant as a &#8220;homage to friendship. It&#8217;s revering girl-girl relationships which we don&#8217;t spend that much time on.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Sharing anecdotes with her girlfriends and managing bars before her acting career took off helped Farr compile a list of dating do&#8217;s and don&#8217;ts over the years. Besides flat-out lying about yourself on a date, she says, &#8220;Another really bad trap that people get into a lot in Los Angeles is just aggrandizing oneself. Everyone is so afraid of each other in the dating scene.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Farr is further determined to dispel the myth &#8220;that women can get laid whenever the heck they want. We just walk out of the house and decide who we want to have sex with.&#8221; This, she laughs, &#8220;is not the case. And it does require much more work than any man seems to think. We&#8217;re just as uncomfortable. [Men and women] can&#8217;t read signs from [each other], so the more honest you are, the easier it is to get there.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Having worked closely with the mostly male casts of Loveline, The Drew Carey Show and The Job, Farr wryly passes on one last bit of advice: &#8220;The key issue is basically not to sleep with your co-workers, and you can work in those guy environments.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Thanks to Robyn for this: This was in TV Guide Insider Online today &#8211; March15 Job Star Deciphers Girl Code<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","footnotes":""},"categories":[2391,4],"tags":[321,67,151,796],"coauthors":[2273],"class_list":["post-1680","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-diane-farr","category-supporting","tag-book","tag-books","tag-diane-farr","tag-the-girl-code"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/crashdown.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1680","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/crashdown.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/crashdown.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crashdown.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crashdown.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1680"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/crashdown.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1680\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28637,"href":"https:\/\/crashdown.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1680\/revisions\/28637"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/crashdown.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1680"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crashdown.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1680"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crashdown.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1680"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crashdown.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=1680"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}